In life there is one thing that is persistant ..... Pain. (I m not much of great writer or something .... just tryin to pen few lines just to let things go out of my mind.) We all have it , somewhere deep down inside.. there is pain..hurt..sadness. Why do we love someone so much that we are ready to accept every uncomfort on their part just to make them feel at ease? Why giving should be the way of life? ....Where ever love has found its foot.. pain has tagged behind. Its become sort of a substitute, a customery ritual to experience it.
People say love thrives all around, between... girl friends ..boy friends..old friends...family n relatives..... yet again the very cause of hurt , grief or sorrow are the people whom we know.What do you do when a good friend betrays u.. makes u feel feeble ..so feeble that u hate urself for being so . What do u do when relationships fail because somewhere the darn distance has crept in and u are completely helpless ...? Are u made of a sterner stuff that u have the courage to go against ur hating guts to forgive n forget ....or u isolate. What do u do? because doing either is equally tough.
I think pain brings about a sense of maturity in ones life..(i do not advocate for pain though..) it shows u exactly what you don't want to see or believe .At the end it makes you grow into a stronger person... Does God wants us to experience pain in life so that after going through these bumps we value relations in a more serious fashion... but hey i did not cause any harm or pain or was disloyal then why do i have to go through this ... Has it made me a better person.. has it made me more mature..? All that i m doing is searchin for these answers which seems to be elluding me.........
