Saturday, August 14, 2010

Emotionally Challenged !!

Why do people blog ? does anyone come up with a common answer ;I don't know but I do know that most of them are looking for a cushion & the easiest soul that can take all your nonsense from a usual deranged mind would be this fine space bought by Google & leased out through crowd sourcing.Funny isn'nt , how rapidly we have evolved everything in & around ourselves in pursuit for a happy living but our emotions always get the better of us & sometimes questions the whole purpose .

You learn as you age, I believe this not only because I wrote it but also as I am a fool who learns through time & not through example.Why is it so difficult to improve ourselves emotionally , why can't we have some sort of immunity into action against foreign sentiments & repel even those thoughts no matter regarding whom they are constructed so that one can be left unscathed.I do not intend to severe relationship by being emotionally repulsive rather I intend to save it from deadening .

Baffling, the argument may appear to the naive mind but I feel its the only way to preserve cherished thoughts.If we can predict & be decisive about our dealings with regard to materialistic things in life so that we don't fall in the harm's way why can't we do the same with our emotions.Why is our emotion incapable of changing before situations, people ,objects & inflict less distress on the bearer?

As I say this , I can't help to think a corollary for the above "would life be worth living if we try to shield ourselves way too much from sorrow or maybe even happiness by trying to be emotionally Challenged".When you see both sides of the coin you tend to contradict the very purpose of this article but is'nt flipside is an attache to every decision we take. Should it be a detterant for not making a decision ? I guess not , we all make decisions under circumstances which we hope would bring out the best for us , we can never be sure but can always pray it works.

There is a wonderfull thing about blogging which I often realise but have never penned it down,not till today i.e " You want to let people know how you feel (& by people I mean the people who have been meaningfull in your life either in big or small way )but at the same time you are a little apprehensive about letting it all out possible for a fear putting the relation in path of danger , so what do you do ....You Blog as Being Vague is the name of the Game !!

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