In life there is one thing that is persistant ..... Pain. (I m not much of great writer or something .... just tryin to pen few lines just to let things go out of my mind.) We all have it , somewhere deep down inside.. there is pain..hurt..sadness. Why do we love someone so much that we are ready to accept every uncomfort on their part just to make them feel at ease? Why giving should be the way of life? ....Where ever love has found its foot.. pain has tagged behind. Its become sort of a substitute, a customery ritual to experience it.
People say love thrives all around, between... girl friends ..boy friends..old friends...family n relatives..... yet again the very cause of hurt , grief or sorrow are the people whom we know.What do you do when a good friend betrays u.. makes u feel feeble ..so feeble that u hate urself for being so . What do u do when relationships fail because somewhere the darn distance has crept in and u are completely helpless ...? Are u made of a sterner stuff that u have the courage to go against ur hating guts to forgive n forget ....or u isolate. What do u do? because doing either is equally tough.
I think pain brings about a sense of maturity in ones life..(i do not advocate for pain though..) it shows u exactly what you don't want to see or believe .At the end it makes you grow into a stronger person... Does God wants us to experience pain in life so that after going through these bumps we value relations in a more serious fashion... but hey i did not cause any harm or pain or was disloyal then why do i have to go through this ... Has it made me a better person.. has it made me more mature..? All that i m doing is searchin for these answers which seems to be elluding me.........
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There's this hindu festival (i dont remember the name) where as prasad, they give you a bit of jaggery and a bit of tulsi. What does that symbolize? For me, that's the epitome of life. A bit of sweet and a bit of sour. The idea is to taste and feel the one your more comfortable with. More often than not, there are these inhibitions associated with pain or sorrow or sadness. And a no. of questions arise within your head. The similarily is here too. You put the jaggery and the tulsi into your mouth together. You make up your mind that I'm gonna feel the taste of the jaggery only. Trust me, you can do it !!! But more often than not, before we take it in, were thinking, "Oh tulsi, why are they giving me this !!!" n why does that thought occur, cuz its a notion. "Treat pain as a part of joy and you'll see the difference. Make up your mind and rid yourself of the notions, and you'll see the difference. As someone once said, "There will come a day when we shall all feel sorrow, but sorrow without pain, cuz then you've accepted it as part of your system, and its like burning a burnt body !!!!"
Well, a lotta gyaan, but its partly what life has taught me in 23 years so far....and theres sure a lot more to learn...
well..another comment coming up on the prose aspect of it !!!!! but good job brother.....get more into this..its a great vent for ur mind...moreso your heart i would say...
too much gyaan....dude i cant even think n write half of wat u have written but i really can understand wt u've gone thru...just keep going...one day u'll get ur answers...
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